tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post5099050106889951064..comments2023-08-16T11:25:28.357-04:00Comments on Life with Love, Loss, and Lily: You don't give up, do you?Beckyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04161170990042501514noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-40617100303222155112008-05-19T22:32:00.000-04:002008-05-19T22:32:00.000-04:00If you give up there will be a part of your self t...If you give up there will be a part of your self that will feel bad and hurt more then you can be. I wish you could be like me and just let the family stuff go in one ear and out the other, I know it is hard for you but you will get through it. You are the strongest woman I have ever meet and I am glad to be married to you. <BR/><BR/>I wish we could just tell everyone off but I guess our bark is bigger then our bite. So therefore we have to find a way to ignore them and move on with our life because we have so much more important things to do with our time then to worry about who is talking about us today and what they are saying about what we are doing to make our family so perfect. <BR/><BR/>I think you have an amazing gift to be able to help out so many people out there that have gone through the pain that has touched our lives not once but twice and for that I praise you and look up to you. <BR/><BR/>I think Lilly is a wonderful name it will be just right for our baby girl, and Rylan will be such and honor to our boys and they right now are looking down on us and protecting there little sister. <BR/><BR/>So keep on trucking out there, there are so many people including me that are looking up to you. <BR/><BR/>We all love you and godspeed. <BR/><BR/>Love you hubby, <BR/> DerickDerickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15271183974144500375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-8038388525783206902008-05-11T12:17:00.000-04:002008-05-11T12:17:00.000-04:00"you don't give up, do you"Ummm, I don't even know..."you don't give up, do you"<BR/><BR/>Ummm, I don't even know what to say about that! RIDICULOUS!<BR/><BR/>I also think Rylan is just beautiful.heathers243https://www.blogger.com/profile/06765041529229950695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-21651772053442613632008-05-07T13:49:00.000-04:002008-05-07T13:49:00.000-04:00I am sorry about the family junk! However, your n...I am sorry about the family junk! <BR/>However, your name you have chosen is beautiful! <BR/><BR/>Thank you for your comments on my side. I truly appreciate it! <BR/><BR/>Wishing you peace and light on your "happy" journey, this time around!Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00912286121374215944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-33623067313651556232008-05-06T14:00:00.000-04:002008-05-06T14:00:00.000-04:00i love the name I really do. i knew what Rylan was...i love the name I really do. i knew what Rylan was the minute i read it. Fitting and beautiful. I am so sorry that you have people in your life that aren't supportive like they should be. That must be hard. You are doing so well and this is going to happen for you guys. and in the end isn't that all that matters? the rest will work itself out. Yay!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-63038591486402952502008-05-05T19:15:00.000-04:002008-05-05T19:15:00.000-04:00Sorry your family are still being shits. I love th...Sorry your family are still being shits. I love the name Lili and and I would covet Rylan if it wasn't already yours. I think you are doing a great job hang in there.Cajun Cutiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14825687783196553820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-9928299073482903092008-05-05T00:33:00.000-04:002008-05-05T00:33:00.000-04:00Geez, your family doesn't sound very nice or under...Geez, your family doesn't sound very nice or understanding. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. You are much more graceful than I would be in that situation; after hearing all those comments, at one point I think I would've turned into the incredible Hulk and went ape s*** on all of them. Well just try to keep in mind that they are ignorant in the true sense of the word; you know what you gotta do to get by, that Derick is working hard, that you can't work right now, that what you are going through is totally worth it. Ugh I just can't stand when people can't mind their own business, so I feel for you.Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15671030152779318941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-1503190036362943462008-05-04T20:04:00.000-04:002008-05-04T20:04:00.000-04:00Grrrr, I'm so sorry that your family reacted that ...Grrrr, I'm so sorry that your family reacted that way. We will support you! I'm sure the right thing to tell you is that they are worried about you and don't want to see you hurt again...but grrr! People really just don't understand how hurtful their words can be.<BR/><BR/>I think Lillian Rylan is fabulous. It's not too trendy and not something that's totally "off" either - if that makes any sense. I think it's great that Rylan has meaning too.mrsmuellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11270030590565650295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-81754212204130819792008-05-04T08:29:00.000-04:002008-05-04T08:29:00.000-04:00becky,i am glad that you and derrick haven't given...becky,<BR/>i am glad that you and derrick haven't given up. otherwise, how could you have the opportunity to hold your beautiful baby girl in 5 months?<BR/>some people are just mean, and after you lose a baby, they just don't get it. i got pregnant 6 weeks after i lost ~willie~, and i got comments too. i just ignored people because it would have distraced me from my little miracle payton! (as hard as that was!)<BR/>by the way, i love the name you chose! her middle name is gorgeous! i have always liked lily.<BR/>take care, god bless, and i am always checking on you!<BR/>nicole :)niccalvin14https://www.blogger.com/profile/14793854560901673965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-38145774643000511392008-05-04T02:58:00.000-04:002008-05-04T02:58:00.000-04:00Becky, I am so sorry your family is not being more...Becky, <BR/><BR/>I am so sorry your family is not being more supportive of your situation. I'm sorry they're not there for you like we all wish they would be.<BR/><BR/>I can't believe your uncle/grandmother/grandfather said that to you! How incredibly inconsiderate and rude. <BR/><BR/>I am sorry to hear about your aunt though. My thoughts and prayers will be with her.<BR/><BR/>No, we don't give up. They don't give up on life, why should you? I'm trying to see things fairly, but they just don't understand- and they never will.<BR/><BR/>And, I LOVE Rylan! Why are they giving you a hard time about it? I think it's beautiful that she'll share both her brothers names.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there!<BR/><BR/>((HUGS)) ~MonicaMonica Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14767867041043811045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-18029453748882248802008-05-04T02:56:00.000-04:002008-05-04T02:56:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Monica Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14767867041043811045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32634760.post-51258499796498964252008-05-04T01:35:00.000-04:002008-05-04T01:35:00.000-04:00Oh Sweet Becky,I am sorry you had to deal with tha...Oh Sweet Becky,<BR/><BR/>I am sorry you had to deal with that family garbage. How dare they!. Ignore them all, whihc I am sure you're a pro at by now.<BR/><BR/>I love the name, by the way. Obviosuly I love Lily, but the middle name combining the boys name is so perfect.<BR/><BR/>Write if ever I can be of any help, even just to vent. i still check on you every day.<BR/><BR/>Take Care and God Bless,<BR/><BR/>CarieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com